Let us help you

The good news is that teens are experiencing fewer unintended pregnancies today than they did just a few years ago; many teens are choosing to postpone sex (sexual abstinence), and many are using birth control methods properly. Here in the Robbinsdale area, the teen pregnancy rate has dropped by 40% over the past four years!

The bad news is that sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are increasing among teens who are sexually active. Parents can help their teens reduce the risk of pregnancy and STIs when they talk openly and honestly with their children about their bodies and sexual health.

Many of us who are parents may be unsure how to have conversations with our children about sex because our own parents never really had “the talk” with us. It might be awkward. It might be challenging. But sexual health experts recommend that we discuss sexual health topics with our children early and often.

We have a variety of programs and workshops designed to help you learn how to talk with your child about the changes of puberty, healthy relationships, and sexual health!

parent education programs

  • It’s That Easy!: learn about typical adolescent development, identify your values around relationships and sexuality, and develop tools and strategies to engage your child in these important conversations.
  • Celebration of Change: discuss the many exciting changes of puberty! parents and children spend some time working together, and some time in their respective peer groups.
  • Customized Workshops: seeking a different type of workshop about parent/child communication, puberty, or sexual health? Contact us & we’ll work with you! For more information, contact Chelle Vogel, Parent Educator. Phone: 763-533-1316 x 4905

Tips for talking about the birds and the bees

  • Sharing age appropriate information with your child early and often. For example:  “Bodies come in all different shapes and sizes!  Just look at how different my body is from your aunt’s body!  If you ever have questions about your body, please ask me!  You have great questions.”
  • Answering questions as your child brings them up. For example: “I’m so glad you asked me about this! Yes, boys’ voices start to change, and become deeper when they begin to go through puberty. Have you noticed that your voice is cracking more? We all have our own timing, so some of your friends’ voices may have already changed, and some of your friends’ voices won’t change until much later. Everyone has their own timing.  What other questions do you have about body changes?”
  • Providing age-appropriate resources for your child to learn more information. For example, share websites with them that you trust as reliable resources. Keep in mind that there are many websites that do not provide professional, fact-based resources, but just allow anyone online to offer a guess or diagnosis!
  • Purchasing books geared for your child’s age regarding a topic they may be interested in.  For example, provide them with a fact-based book on puberty BEFORE your child has gone through the changes of puberty.
  • As your child grows older, they may begin to feel embarrassed to talk with you about sensitive and sexual questions. This is normal. Talk with your child about another caring adult who may be able to answer their questions. For example, is there a family member or close family friend you can agree upon?

helpful ways to respond to a question about sex

  1. Tell me more about your question or situation.
  2. The “factual” answer is…
  3. Basically, my thoughts and feelings about this subject are…
  4. I would answer this question for my child by saying…

Photo CC Johnny Ainsworth